Untangling
The joined-up parts of a shared life, taken apart in a sensible order: accounts, passwords, devices, messages to an ex, and the questions worth taking to a lawyer before you agree to anything.
How to Communicate With Your Ex Without Restarting the Fight
How to communicate with your ex about logistics, money, or the children without reopening the argument: three rules, worked examples, and when not to reply.
9 min readThe Digital Untangling: Accounts, Passwords, and Devices After a Breakup
Shared accounts after a breakup, in the right order: what still shows your location, what still spends your money, and what to keep rather than delete.
10 min readWhat to Ask a Divorce Lawyer, and What to Bring
What to ask a divorce lawyer at a first meeting, what documents to bring, how fees actually work, and what to do if you cannot afford representation.
10 min read