Trying Again
The one question the rest of this site does not answer: whether to attempt reconciliation. No tactics for winning anybody back, no recommendation either way, and no version of this at all where there has been abuse, because that is a safety matter rather than a relationship decision.
Thinking About Trying Again: How to Decide Honestly
Should you get back together after a separation? The question that is actually decidable, what a serious attempt involves, and when the answer is simply no.
11 min readTrial Separation Rules: What to Agree Before You Live Apart
A trial separation without rules ruins both outcomes at once. What to agree in writing, how long to run it, and the difference from a legal separation.
13 min readYou Got Back Together. Now What?
After getting back together is where most advice stops. What the first months actually feel like, what to change, and why the court case does not close itself.
11 min readWe Tried Again and It Did Not Work
We tried again and it did not work: the second ending, why the attempt was not wasted, what the attempt told you, and how to end it cleanly.
11 min read